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Mary Braun Bates, MD's avatar

>>I was chaining myself to the very people and events I sought freedom from. My anger, my need to be vindicated—these were the true captors, not the people I blamed.

Lovely insight, nicely put. I think that's the key to recovering from trauma.

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Diamond-Michael Scott's avatar

Yes, let ‘em go. Release them so you can glide forward.

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Spiritual Entertainer's avatar

A well articulated article; true power lies not in conquering other men but in conquering one's Self.

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Zara's avatar

Beautifully stated. ❤️

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Jimmy's avatar

“Power, I realized, is not about force but flow—about moving with life’s currents rather than resisting them.”

This was a very enjoyable read, it had a relatable point to the Taoist story of the waterfall you mentioned in an earlier article of yours. Thanks for sharing your experiences and awareness on the subject.

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Diamond-Michael Scott's avatar

Hi Jimmy. Great to hear your thoughts. Onward and Forward my good brotha.

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Diana van Eyk's avatar

You articulated something that I've experienced as well, a different response to losses. For me this didn't happen through Taoism or the I Ching, although they probably contributed, but almost a maturing and a kind of letting go.

Sorry, I'm struggling for words. I can relate, but I think my experience was a little different, even though the results were similar.

I love how clearly you put this, Diamond-Michael.

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Amy Roberts's avatar

So many golden nuggets of goodness in this piece. Thank you!

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Diamond-Michael Scott's avatar

Thanks Amy

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Oma Rose's avatar

My dear Friend, I loved "clearing space" for the soul. Your last lines speak of self empowerment as the freedom we all must have to be true to ourselves first. I can't tell you how much it means to me to be one of your readers and join with them as devoted to self realisation and strength of character and purpose. Love, love, love!

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Diamond-Michael Scott's avatar

Hi Oma. Thank you for your thoughts and kind words. It’s always a pleasure to hear from you.

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and now Miguel's avatar

“Instead of replaying the past, I asked myself, What wounds within me need healing? What stories am I telling myself about my worth?”

I had a case of replying the past this morning and saw how draining it can be. Love these questions, they are great journaling prompts.

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Lee Buchanan's avatar

Spot on. I needed to read this post - thank you!

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