I still remember sitting in a series of philosophy classes during my undergrad days at Ohio State, pondering the elemental theories of Thales and his wisdom around water as the source of all things.
As a self-described nerd, I was hypnotized by the logic. The elegance. The audacity. Thales and his fellow Greek minds, the Milesians, were throwing punches at the gods, trading myth for reason and crafting the earliest blueprints of natural science. It was my first real intellectual crush.
Years later, I’d found myself in a silent room, barefoot and cross-legged, the Tao Te Ching open on my lap, when something strange happened. I felt… lighter. Calmer. Less compelled to decode the universe and more content to dissolve into it.
How did I go from chasing certainty to courting mystery?
That journey between the firm grip of Milesian rationalism and the gentle flow of Taoist wisdom is where I’ve lived most of my adult life.
The Seduction of the Knowable
Let’s give the Milesians their due. Thales didn’t just talk, he predicted an eclipse. Anaximander’s apeiron gave birth to the idea of infinite potential. These guys weren’t armchair theorists. They were proto-scientists who trusted that the universe could be grasped with clarity and discipline. And as a 20-something Black kid with a chip on his shoulder and a thirst for meaning, I needed that clarity.
When the world feels chaotic, oppressive, or unjust, logic becomes a life raft. I devoured every idea that promised order: archê, logos, deduction, evidence. Like Anaximenes with his sacred air, I breathed in the promise that if I just thought hard enough, I could figure it all out.
The Moment the Logic Cracked
But life laughs at certainty.
Years ago, I hit a wall physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Everything I’d planned was crumbling. My well-reasoned strategies weren’t saving me. I was fighting life, not flowing with it.
One afternoon, I opened the Tao Te Ching out of desperation. I landed on this:
“”The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao.”
This phrase hit me like a spiritual left hook. What if the reason I was stuck was because I was trying too hard to master what I was meant to surrender to?
That’s when the dance began—between knowing and unknowing, grasping and letting go.
Water Doesn’t Argue, It Flows
Taoism, unlike the Milesian tradition, doesn’t chase definitions. It whispers: Stop forcing. Start feeling.
Where the Milesians say, “Understand nature,” the Tao says, “Be nature.”
This shift wasn’t academic—it was deeply personal.
I learned to trust silence more than theories.
I practiced wu wei—effortless action—instead of endless striving.
I stopped trying to fix people, fix myself, fix the cosmos.
Like water, I learned to bend without breaking. Like air, I let myself move freely, ungraspable, undefined.
Reason Gives You the Map. Tao Teaches You How to Walk It.
The Milesians gave me the gift of asking questions.
The Tao taught me the wisdom of not always needing answers.
And here’s the punchline: they both matter.
You can’t float through life without structure. But you can’t reason your way through mystery, either.
You need to think like Thales, but live like Lao Tzu.
You need a rational spine, but a Taoist heart.
Final Reflections from the Crossroads
Today, I teach and write at the crossroads of these two traditions.
I speak Milesian when clarity is needed.
I flow Taoist when life demands grace.
I’m not looking for ultimate truth anymore—I’m walking with it.
Sometimes that looks like an eclipse you predicted.
Sometimes it feels like a breeze you never saw coming.
So here’s my challenge to you:
What would it mean to stop trying to solve the mystery—and start being part of it?
Let that tension live in you.
Don’t resolve it.
Dance with it.
That’s the sweet spot—between Thales and Tao.
And it’s where I’ve found the truest kind of freedom.
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Both are essential. Thanks for this important reminder.