We live in a time without maps.
The rules are dissolving. The institutions are fraying. The center no longer holds.
We’ve entered a terra incognita—uncharted land. A world of paradox, where truth feels like vapor and certainty, a luxury of the past.
I’ve come to see this moment not as a mistake or misstep in history, but as part of a deeper rhythm—one the Tao has always whispered about.
In Taoist wisdom, uncertainty is not a bug in the system. It is the system. The Tao Te Ching tells us, “The way that can be named is not the eternal Way.”
….Translation 👉🏿 you’ll never have all the answers, so stop grasping.
……Let go
………….Just flow
Yet in the face of cascading social, economic, political, and environmental breakdowns, the human impulse is to grip tighter. To control, to fix, to be right.
But what I’ve found is that leaning into the mystery, rather than resisting it, is where the creative way forward emerges.
This doesn’t mean becoming passive. Quite the opposite. It means cultivating presence in the eye of the storm. It means learning to stand, not with arrogance, but with deep, grounded knowing—
This is known as self-governance…. a fierce commitment to live by inner integrity, not outer approval.
I know this world all too well. And to be brutally honest, it’s at time cost me mightily.
There have been friendships that ended not with a whimper but a slammed door. People I once called close have turned cold because I refused to bend to popular narratives, or betray my own values for the sake of fitting in. These weren’t easy partings. But they were necessary.
The message here is that staying true to yourself sometimes requires walking away. Not in anger, but in liberation.
As Marcus Aurelius once wrote, “You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”
The Stoics and Taoists, though born in different worlds, share a common code….waste no energy on what you cannot control.
I can’t control the political circus, the next social media outrage, or the next economic shoe to drop. And neither can you.
But I can control how I show up. I can choose stillness over reactivity. I can choose to plant seeds in my inner garden when the outer landscape is on fire.
In this chaotic stretch of my life, I’ve found solace in creative rituals. Writing. Qigong. Long walks without a destination.
I’ve restructured my days not around productivity, but around presence. There’s no app for that. No hack. Just an ongoing dance with the mystery.
I’ve also discovered that what feels like loss in the moment can, in time, become sacred space. One friendship I had to sever left me reeling—grief, doubt, the whole ride. But in the silence that followed, I rediscovered my own voice. I reconnected with purpose.
I began to write again, deeply, soulfully, dangerously. That “loss” was, in hindsight, an invitation. It was a reminder to me that the Tao doesn’t take away in order to punish. It clears space to re-align you with your true nature.
In this age of performative authenticity, staying rooted in the real is revolutionary. It’s not about having all the answers or virtue signaling your way into false certainty. It’s about owning your path, however winding, and trusting that walking it with integrity is its own form of grace.
And so, I keep going—not with a 3-D blueprint, but with a compass. That compass is a blend of Lao Tzu and Epictetus.
Of letting go and standing firm. Of water and stone. It tells me to stay light but grounded. To be fierce, but flexible. And above all, stay true—even if the world calls you wrong.
Because what we stand to lose by staying true—friends, status, comfort—is nothing compared to what we might gain — clarity, purpose, peace.
The longer I live, the more I realize…. you don’t need the whole world to understand you. You just need your soul to recognize itself.
That is the Tao in a time of tumult. That is the map through the unknown.
And I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
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Essential words for me:
“I can’t control the political circus, the next social media outrage, or the next economic shoe to drop. And neither can you.
But I can control how I show up. I can choose stillness over reactivity. I can choose to plant seeds in my inner garden when the outer landscape is on fire.”
This from a guy (me) who feels true sadness when the Cubs bullpen folds at an inopportune moment, or the Avs lose in a shootout. Things I have no control over! Affecting my soul! Just stop, Peter. Stop.
“Performative authenticity.” I’ve never seen those two words/concepts together—each modifying the other. It’s an oxymoronic phrase, right? Something to recognize as, indeed, inauthentic because of the performance aspect of it. “Who is the performer once the performance is over?” THAT is the authentic person. In verse 17 of the Tao Te Ching, Lao Tzu talks about an authentic leader who leads such that the people she leads believes they are the ones who have remained empowered to accomplish successes. THAT is true authenticity—never performative. If we as a populace could become better skilled at recognizing vacuous performances and transactional relationships, maybe, just maybe, we’d stand a better chance at compassion for all. As it is, those of us who do recognize, are best to follow your wisdom and stay grounded when the winds of hatred and forced changes blow.