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I used to think money had only one way of arriving—through a carefully plotted path, a direct exchange of effort for compensation.
The belief was linear — Do X, get Y. But the more I grasped the nature of Wu Wei—the effortless action philosophy central to Taoism—the more I saw the folly in trying to control how money moves.
What I’ve discovered is that it’s not a straight river with predictable currents. Money is a reservoir, an ever-present body of energy that shifts and pools in unexpected places.
But if you are anything like me, you stand at the edge of a stream, gripping a bucket, convinced that unless we fetch it this way, it won’t come at all. In the meantime, we don’t see the underground springs, the rain clouds forming, the tributaries connecting far beyond our vision. Our attachment to a singular stream of income becomes a dam, blocking the infinite ways money can flow our way.
For years, I meddled. I strategized. I obsessed. If I wrote this book, landed this gig, positioned myself in this market, then the money would arrive.
The sheer effort, the micromanagement of financial outcomes, drained me. And ironically, money didn’t come faster—it slowed to a trickle. The more I grasped, the more it slipped through my fingers, as if sensing my desperation.
Then something happened. A shift, subtle but seismic. I stopped obsessing about how money should arrive and started treating it like air—something already present, something I only needed to align with, not control.
The Wu Wei of Money: Flow, Not Force
Taoists say that the sage does nothing, yet nothing remains undone. It took me years to see how this applies to wealth. Money isn’t a beast to be tamed. It’s a bricolage of energy, opportunities, and unexpected windfalls.
When I stopped forcing outcomes, money began appearing in ways I never could have planned. A forgotten investment suddenly resulted in a return. A past project paid unexpected dividends. A stranger offered an opportunity that paid in ways beyond finance.
This is Wu Wei—the action of non-action. It’s not about passivity, it’s about trusting the unfolding. Trusting that money already wants to move to you if you stop barricading it with worry, overthinking, and excessive planning.
Author and wisdom teacher Danielle LaPorte, speaks of wealth as a panopticon—a 360-degree reality where we can either focus on scarcity or recognize that money is omnipresent. She argues that our relationship with money is fundamentally about trust: Do we trust that we are supported? That abundance is ours to claim?
Her words landed hard. I realized I had been treating money like a rigid system, a reward to be earned, rather than an extension of energy, creativity, and generosity.
I had been perspicacious in everything except the most crucial truth: Money is like water. It flows toward the lowest resistance. It collects in places where there is space, not where there is control.
How to Stop Meddling and Start Receiving
So what does this mean in practice? How do we stop meddling, overthinking, and gripping our financial outcomes into a chokehold?
Here’s what I’ve learned:
🌇 Detach from the “How”
The moment you decide money must come in a particular way, you slam the door on all the other ways it could come. Let go of specifics. Instead of saying, “I must make $100,000 this way,” say and feel into, “I am open to financial abundance arriving in ways beyond my imagination.”
🌇 Do Your Part, Then Step Back
There’s a difference between inspired action and frantic meddling. Make the move, send the proposal, launch the idea—but don’t stand over it, micromanaging the universe’s response. Let it breathe.
🌇 Recognize Money as a Reservoir
Instead of picturing money as something you earn in linear increments, see it as a vast reservoir. Sometimes you’re accessing a direct stream. Other times, the water is shifting underground, preparing to emerge in another form. Your job is to trust that the reservoir is there.
🌇 Cultivate a Sanguine Money Mindset
Scarcity is a state of mind, not a reality. If you believe you are always in need, money will mirror that belief. But if you adopt a sanguine—optimistic—relationship with wealth, expecting it to show up in various ways, it does. Money doesn’t just follow energy, it follows expectation.
🌇 Say Yes to the Unexpected
Sometimes money arrives as a gift, an opportunity, a wild idea that doesn’t make sense at first. Say yes to what feels aligned. The universe often pays in ways beyond cash—sometimes, an introduction or a book recommendation is the currency that leads to tenfold financial returns.
Your Money Path Is Unfolding—Let It
If you take nothing else from this, take this…..
…….You are already standing in abundance. Money, like all energy, responds to flow, not force. It moves toward openness, not resistance. The more you meddle, the more you obstruct. The more you trust, the more it finds you.
You don’t have to chase money. You don’t have to manipulate every detail. You simply have to allow. Let it come as rain, as rivers, as underground springs you didn’t even know were forming.
Your reservoir is full. Are you ready to stop gripping the bucket and simply let it pour?
So, instead of "Show me the money!" and "Make it rain!" we need to be more like 'Enjoy the vast vistas of diamonds and gold,' and "Every time it rains, it rains..."
I truly love this concept and have seen it at work in my life many times. However…as always with the manifesting mentality or the ubiquitous wealth gospels, it also sets off an alarm bell.
Are we then saying that the world’s slums are just full of people who are to blame for their circumstance because they are not properly aligned? I see that poorer populations sometimes receive what they need through community - instead of through monetary wealth, and that makes sense. But most also suffer deeply and go without basic needs. How do we reconcile this?