During these weird, wobbly, what-the-hell-is-going-on times, there’s one skill I’ve come to see as more sacred than gold, more critical than strategy, and more Tao than hustle: the art of the pivot.
Yeah. That’s right. The pivot.
No, not the corporate buzzword kind that tech bros toss around on LinkedIn like vodka. I’m talking about the street-tested, soul-led, Tao-aligned pivot—the kind that kicks in when your plans collapse, your energy’s fried, and the universe hands you chaos in a paper bag and says, figure it out.
This isn’t something I learned in a meditation retreat. I learned this in real time, in real life—on the cracked sidewalks of the world, dodging metaphorical (and literal) shoes that threatened to squash my spirit.
The Wisdom of Ants (Yes, Really)
Here’s what nobody tells you when you’re studying flow states and ancient texts….
…. ants are Taoist masters.
Think about it. Ever watched an ant do its thing? You could step right in front of it with your big ol’ size 12 shoe, and that ant will stop, assess, and without panic, pivot.
It doesn’t scream, file a complaint with the universe, or collapse in existential dread. It pivots. A few steps to the left, a curve to the right—and it’s back on its mission, unbothered.
The ant doesn’t need a 5-year plan or an algorithmic forecast. It trusts its internal wiring. It trusts the moment. It doesn’t just push forward—it adapts, adjusts, flows.
And that, my friend, is the Tao in action.
Pivoting as a Sacred Practice
In Taoist wisdom, the ability to flow is a sacred act of alignment. The Tao Te Ching tells us:
“Nothing in the world is as soft and yielding as water. Yet for dissolving the hard and inflexible, nothing can surpass it.”
To pivot is to be like water. It’s to trust that even when life turns unpredictable—when the job evaporates, the relationship combusts, the dream gets delayed—you don’t have to break. You can bend. You can reroute. You can channel your inner ant and walk around the damn shoe.
The pivot is not weakness. It’s wisdom.
And when you tap into it—not from panic, but from presence—you stop resisting what is, and start navigating what can be.
The I Ching Knows What’s Up
Now, if there’s one ancient text that gets this down to a science of spirit, it’s the I Ching, the Book of Changes. I see it as one big meditation on transformation and adaptation, a poetic field guide to uncertainty.
Take Hexagram 29—“The Abysmal (Water)”. It teaches us that repeated danger requires focused attention, and the best response is not force, but awareness. You stay alert. You move with the flow. You find the openings in the chaos.
The pivot, then, becomes less about reaction and more about listening. Being attuned to your environment. Your gut. Your spirit. And especially that quiet voice that says, this isn’t working so let’s try another way.
Trusting that voice? That’s spiritual jiu-jitsu.
The Ego Hates to Pivot
But let’s be real: the ego hates the pivot.
It wants the straight path, the prestige plan, the “I told you so” ending. It clings to control like a cat to a screen door.
So when life throws you a detour, your ego doesn’t say, “Cool, let’s recalibrate.” It throws a tantrum. It resists. It mourns the version of you that no longer fits.
But here’s the thing: attachment to a single outcome is the quickest way to suffer. When we force the old route, we miss the new trail. When we hold onto one dream, we lose ten better ones in our blind spot.
That’s where trust comes in.
Pivot Without Panic
The key to mastering the pivot isn’t to get it perfect. It’s to get present.
Ask yourself: What is this moment really asking of me?
Not what should be happening. Not what was supposed to happen. But what’s here, now.
Then, move from alignment, not anxiety.
Do like the ant: gather your instincts, feel your way forward, and take the next step. Just one. Not the whole plan. Not the whole staircase. Just the next small pivot.
Making It Fun: The Tao of Play
If you really want to get advanced? Make the pivot fun. Laugh at the absurdity. Play with the chaos. Dance with the unexpected.
The universe isn’t out to get you—it’s inviting you to improvise. To create. To live a life that’s less scripted and more responsive.
Remember: this is not a test. This is your life.
So pivot with style. Pivot with soul. Pivot like an ant in a labyrinth with the Universe as the architect.
And above all, trust the pivot. It may not lead you where you planned, but it just might lead you where you’re meant to go.
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One of my favorite all time meditation moments was when I was really young. 17 actually. I was on day 3 of a 6 day sesshin. My legs were killing me. Knees were aching. After about 30 min of yoga I came out to sit on the porch and sort of just experienced without noticing that I had no thoughts, only being. I sat there for about 20 minutes just watching ants. It was one of the most peaceful moments in my life and I think it's what helped get me back to meditation after about 20 years in another tradition that didn't support meditation.
Thx for the reminder of that story.
This is a great article.